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I need to allow you to be you … whatever that means … even if i like it or not by the well know romanian essayist Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

October 8, 2024 - By NYDAILYNEWS

I’ve started to believe that our perceptions … somehow make us be dominated by the desire of changing anyone from the stage of our lives.

We want … mother to act into a certain way.

… the son … or the daughter … to be like that or that … or do certain things we expect them to do.

But … more and more …. we have certain expectations from the loved person.

And … not even for a second … we can’t allow those people to be … who they want to be.

Is almost like … we expect as them to ask for our approval … but actually the best should be to act only and only according to a certain scenario… we have in our minds.

Basically … we live with the expectation as anyone from the stage of our lives … especially the ones closest to us … to interpret a certain role.

…. like an actor … reading the script we’ve wrote for the current reality.

And … the moment when that is not happening … we just drive crazy.

Some even say … “How dare you?!”.

Well …

Somehow … that is … how we all act with the people from our lives.

… trying to control all … and everyone.

Forgetting that … in fact … we need to practice acceptance into its absolute form.

Allowing all to happen.

… and everyone be and act however wants.

But … we can’t.

Yes …

Or maybe … i should say … that we are incapable … and the root of all is based on the fact that … we haven’t learned to connect to the now.

… enjoying it.

So … the only thing left to do is to accept our disability of acting properly in front of life …. and see that as the starting point of our healing process.

Allow all … to happen.

Allow everyone … to be who they want to be.

Ignore all the hallucinations from your mind … and simple try to enjoy life.

Whatever … that means ….

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